Shannon Glover came from England to San Diego almost 30 years ago for a uniquely American reason: She fell in love with Tom Cruise and “Top Gun.”  Now she’s in a dispute that pits the country of her birth against the one she calls home.  Her homeowner’s association in Carmel Valley has ordered her to stop flying the British flag, the Union Jack, outside her house.  “Only the American flag is permitted,” the Notice of Violation says.    Read the article…………………………..